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Online and Face-to-Face Counselling

Counselling that works with the way you think, feel and experience the world

Neurodiversity-affirming and inclusive counselling for adults aged 16+, available online across the UK and face to face in Coatbridge.

Enquiries are welcome from individuals, parents and guardians.

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Support that begins with understanding

Counselling is not one-size-fits-all. People often arrive feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood or unsure whether therapy will suit them at all — particularly if previous support did not take account of how they think and process.

 

Paul works flexibly and affirmingly. Sessions are adapted around your communication preferences, sensory needs and pace, rather than expecting you to adapt to a fixed way of working.

Where it starts

“You do not need to change who you are to be supported.”

Paul Frew, Through Counselling

Autism

Affirming space to explore identity, sensory needs, communication and everyday life.

ADHD

Support with focus, motivation, overwhelm, self-criticism and executive demands.

Anxiety and Depression

Gentle, practical support when worry, low mood or exhaustion take over.

Dyspraxia and Dyslexia

Understanding how processing and coordination differences shape confidence.

OCD and Emotional Wellbeing

Space to talk about intrusive thoughts, routines and emotional regulation.

LGBTQ+ and Identity-Affirming Support

Inclusive counselling for identity, relationships and self-understanding.

Support shaped around real experiences

You may already identify as neurodivergent, be exploring whether this describes your experience or simply be looking for support that feels more understanding.

Who the service supports

Counselling from a space that feels right for you

Online counselling UK-wide

Online Counselling

Confidential video sessions from wherever you feel most comfortable, available UK-wide.

Adults 16+ across the UK

Face-to-Face Counselling

In-person sessions at a professional counselling setting in Coatbridge, by arrangement.

North Lanarkshire and surrounding areas

Psychoeducation

Understanding neurodiversity and mental health for individuals, families and teams.

Individuals, parents and guardians

Support for Practitioners

Reflective and educational sessions for practitioners developing affirming practice.

Counsellors and support professionals

Group Work

Topic-focused groups arranged around shared experiences, subject to availability.

Small groups, by arrangement

Mental Health Support

Ongoing counselling for anxiety, low mood, burnout and emotional regulation.

Adults seeking regular support

Ways of working together

Services

Professional experience with a genuinely human approach

Meet Paul

Not sure whether counselling feels right? Start by meeting Paul

Watch a short introduction to Paul, his approach and what you can expect when making an enquiry.

Three steps, at a pace that suits you

How it works

1. Send an enquiry

Complete the confidential consultation form and share as much or as little initial information as feels comfortable.

2. Speak with Paul

Paul will get in touch to discuss what you are looking for and whether the service is suitable.

3. Choose your next step

Arrange online or face-to-face support at a pace that feels manageable.

Respect

Your experience is taken seriously, exactly as you describe it.

Confidentiality

What you share stays private, within clear ethical limits.

Understanding

Time is taken to understand how you think and process.

Collaborative Support

Sessions are shaped together, at a pace you set.

What you can expect from Through Counselling

Our promise
Do I need a formal diagnosis?

No. You are welcome whether you have a diagnosis, are exploring whether a description fits your experience, or simply want support that feels more understanding.

Yes. Online counselling is the main way Paul works and is available to adults aged 16+ anywhere in the UK.

In-person sessions take place at a professional counselling setting in Coatbridge, North Lanarkshire, by arrangement. Full arrival information is shared once an appointment is agreed.

Yes. Parents and guardians are welcome to enquire on behalf of someone aged 16 or over. Paul will talk through how best to involve the person seeking support.

Paul will contact you using your preferred method to discuss what you are looking for and whether the service is suitable. There is no obligation to book.

No. Through Counselling is not a crisis or emergency service. If you need urgent help, please contact the emergency services or an appropriate crisis support provider.

Answers before you get in touch

If your question is not here, you are welcome to ask it through the enquiry form.

Common questions

You do not need to have everything worked out before getting in touch

Use the enquiry form to tell Paul what support you are looking for. He will contact you to discuss the next step.

Online across the UK · Face to face in Coatbridge

Through Counselling is not a crisis service

If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact the emergency services. If you need urgent mental-health support, contact an appropriate crisis or emergency support provider.

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